Be unmistakably you.
Add the details that make it easier for the right woman to notice you.
Violet is a dating space made for women who love women. Discover people you actually want to know, start conversations without the awkwardness, and let something real begin.
MADE FOR THIS FROM DAY ONE
Violet is being built around how women who love women actually want to meet: with less noise, more intention, better boundaries and enough fun to keep dating feeling like dating.
DATING SHOULD FEEL GOOD
Violet keeps the experience clear and human. Show up as yourself, discover women who catch your attention, and move from match to conversation without turning dating into a second job.
FROM PROFILE TO FIRST DATE
Violet is designed to make lesbian dating feel simple from the moment you arrive.
Add the details that make it easier for the right woman to notice you.
Explore profiles, notice the little things, and follow the feeling when someone stands out.
Coffee or a gallery date?
Can I vote for both? ☕
No perfect opener required. A good conversation only needs somewhere to start.
MORE WAYS TO SEE YOURSELF HERE
Dating does not have one look. Violet is for adult women across backgrounds, styles and stages of life who want a space where lesbian connection is the point, not an afterthought.


YOUR HEART. YOUR TERMS.
Good dating starts with confidence. Violet is being designed with privacy, profile controls and clear ways to deal with unwanted behaviour from the beginning.
Violet is in development. The safeguards below are planned for launch.Thoughtful profile visibility and privacy controls, so you can decide how you show up and what others see.
Profile verification is planned to help members make more informed choices about who they connect with.
Blocking and reporting will be built into profiles and conversations so support is never far away.
YOUR NEXT HELLO COULD BE A GOOD ONE
Easy to join. Fun to use. Built for lesbian connection.